Hey kids,
Many of you know this already, but for anyone else who is an occasional contact I just wanted to let you know that it is with deep sorrow that I must announce that yesterday Lindsay lost our second child. She was at 18 weeks when we learned that the fetus' health was not good and faced the tough decision on whether or not to continue the pregnancy. After meeting with many specialists we learned that the child had a slim chance of survival after delivery, and if she did, her life would be wrought with many surgeries, physical and mental hurdles, and no real quality of life. Even though technology has come a long way, it is my, and Lindsay's, belief that sometimes technology only helps the people around the one who needs it, by keeping the loved one alive when, without intervention, that person would pass. We both also believe it is better to shoulder the pain and suffering for the rest of our lives than to force the child to shoulder it for the rest of hers. We are heartbroken and appreciate all of you who have shown your support. Although there may be those of you who disagree with our decision, we would appreciate it if you could respect our choice and only pass along words of compassion and hold your opinions on the matter close to the chest.
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